I would persuade you to be a Christian

Yes, if I could, I would persuade you to be a Christian. In the minds of many, they think this wicked. It’s not very inclusive, they would say, to try to convince someone to leave behind his religion and adhere to yours. But the truth is, it would be wicked of me not to try.

The Apostle Paul understood this as he was being tried in a kangaroo court before a king named Agrippa. After  being accused of being out of his mind, Paul challenged Agrippa to consider the Scriptures that they had, the Old Testament. The Old Testament prophecies affirmed what Paul had been preaching about Christ. Agrippa’s response was this:

…In a short time would you persuade me to be a Christian? (Acts 26:28)

We don’t know with what heart Agrippa asked this question. What it seems like he’s saying is, “Do you think you could persuade me to be a Christian with this one conversation?”

Paul’s response is wonderful: “…Whether short or long, I would to God that not only you but also all who hear me this day might become such as I am–except for these chains” (v29). In other words, “I don’t care how long it takes. I want you and everyone else to be like me, to be a Christian (except being wrongly arrested and tried, of course).”

How could he make such a bold statement? Love. Paul had been shown that he was a sinner worthy of God’s wrath. But he was also shown that Jesus Christ took on that wrath by dying on the cross on Paul’s behalf. And he was shown that the only thing that he or anyone else had to do to receive this grace was to believe in Christ, or you could say, “to be a Christian”.

In light of what he knew, how could he not try persuade Agrippa and everyone else he came into contact with to be a Christian? How can I not try to convince you to be a Christian? To leave you in your state of animosity with God would be the worst thing I could do to you.

Now, you might think that I have no right to say you’re in a state of animosity with God. You’re right in a sense. But all I can do is tell you what Jesus said: “Whoever believes in [God’s Son] is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God” (John 3:18). Those who do not trust in Jesus are not right with God.

You might say, “Well that’s unfair! How could God give only one way to Himself?” The answer to that is, “How dare you? You don’t deserve even one way. And this one way cost everything–God gave His only Son, and Christ died on the cross to purchase this one way.”

So, on this day, yes, I would persuade you to be a Christian, because I love you. Please, I beg you, turn to Jesus Christ, be forgiven of all your sins, past present, and future, and become such as I am.

We will not fear

In Martin Luther’s famous and edifying hymn, A Mighty Fortress Is Our God, one of the lyrics is, “We will not fear for God has willed His truth to triumph through us.” The rest of that verse implies that the truth that gives us such boldness and endurance in the midst of the grim prince of darkness’s rage, is that his doom is sure. God has promised ever since Genesis 3:15 that He would “crush” the head of the Serpent.

So, since we know that God will be victorious over the devil, then we will not fear. If that is true about the devil, how much more should it be true about something like COVID-19? How much more should it be true about the economy? How much more should it be true about government overreach?

Whatever we would fear, we need to remember that God wins.

Even if this virus kills as many people as they project and even kills you, Christ has overcome the world by defeating something uglier than disease that kills the body—sin that kills the soul. So, for those who trust in Christ, if this virus kills them, they enter into eternal joy and happiness in the presence of Jesus their Savior. And in the end, all sickness and death will be taken away. Creation will be made new, and the world will be perfect. We will not fear the coronavirus.

Even if the downfall of the economy takes away all of the Christian’s goods, he has the greatest treasure of all, Jesus Christ. Christ will provide. And if a Christian dies of starvation, he will wake up satisfied, in the presence of God. And one day, there will be no hunger, no suffering. We will not fear about the economy.

Even if the government overreaches and becomes more powerful and tyrannical, Christ’s kingdom will prevail. “He who sits in the heavens laughs” at tyrannical governments (Psalm 2:4). All they can do is kill us, and as aforementioned, that just means entering into eternal bliss, for those who believe in Him. And one day, the King of Kings will crush all kingdoms that stand against Him. We will not fear overreaching governments.

“We will not fear, for God has willed His truth to triumph through us. [Insert fearsome object here], we tremble not for him. His rage we can endure, for lo, his doom is sure. One little word shall fell him.”

Not because of our worthiness

Most of human religion engages in a tit-for-tat relationship with God. Many think that if they do good in this life, then they ought to receive good from God. And when people perceive themselves to be good and they are struck with tragedy, they resent God, because they think that it’s unfair. And eternally, it’s assumed that generally good people ought to be allowed into heaven.

All of this is false, of course. If we did have a tit-for-tat relationship with God, we’d all already be destroyed because of our many sins. Whatever good we do in this life is merely our duty, and we don’t deserve anything. When all is counted up, we are actually not good, but evil. And no one deserves to go to heaven on his own merit.

This is found all over the Bible, but we get a taste of it in Luke 6:4-6. A Roman centurion had a servant who was critically ill. So, he sent Jewish leaders to go speak with one famous/infamous Jew in particular, Jesus Christ. And we read,

4 And when they came to Jesus, they pleaded with him earnestly, saying, “He is worthy to have you do this for him,

5 for he loves our nation, and he is the one who built us our synagogue.”

6 And Jesus went with them. When he was not far from the house, the centurion sent friends, saying to him, “Lord, do not trouble yourself, for I am not worthy to have you come under my roof. – Luke 7:4-6

Here, we get a glimpse of this concept: Jesus does not give us grace because of our worthiness, but because of our faith.

We want to emphasize here the concept of grace. Grace is favor that is unmerited. It means that whoever is giving grace to a person is doing so regardless of or even in spite of the receiver’s worthiness or unworthiness. We see grace in this passage in that the centurion acknowledges in verse 6, I am not worthy to have you come under my roof. Imagine a mighty Roman leader, commander of a hundred elite warriors, saying to a subjected Jew of lowly estate, “I am not worthy”. Somehow, he knows he’s not worthy of Jesus’s kindness, and he acknowledges that if Jesus would heal his servant, it would be of grace.

So, Jesus does not give us grace because of our worthiness. The Jewish elders don’t understand that here. They come to Jesus on behalf of the centurion, and they don’t appeal to Christ’s grace. Instead, they appeal to the centurion’s worthiness. They say to Jesus, He is worthy to have you do this for him. Why? He loves our nation, and he is the one who built us our synagogue. He showed favor to the Jews in his area and was even a patron for them, having a place of worship built for them. It was because of what he did for them that they went to bat for him. It was tit-for-tat.

Jesus, went with them, but of course, before he could get to the house, the centurion sent messengers to Jesus to say what we just discussed above. The centurion would go on to say something along the lines of, “Just say the word, and my servant will be healed.” He acknowledged that Jesus was mighty to heal even without being in the same room.

Jesus would then commend this Roman centurion, in stark contrast to His own Jewish people, for his faith. Then, He did as the centurion asked.

This is a picture of the reality that Jesus does not give us grace because of our worthiness, but because of our faith. The Scriptures also say, “By grace, you have been saved through faith”. Now, it is not that faith makes us worthy of grace. Remember that you can’t be worthy of grace. It ceases to be grace if it’s earned. But God is pleased to give grace though faith. Faith is a dependency on Him, knowing that we are not worthy of His kindness. And God uses that faith as a means through which He blesses us.

Sinner, you can never earn God’s favor. You deserve only His wrath. You are not worthy of His coming under your roof. But if you place your faith in Him, like the centurion did, you will be saved.

It came at a cost. Jesus took our sin, our unworthiness, on Himself, and at the behest of leaders of His own people and at the hand of Roman soldiers, was nailed to a cross to experience the wrath of God that we deserve on Himself. He did that so that all who have faith in Him as Savior would be forgiven their sins. Don’t trust in your worthiness—you have none. Trust in His worthiness and grace.

A call to selfless, gospel-driven, God-exalting, hope-abounding harmony (Pt. 3)

3. God-exalting

Having just said that the Scriptures were written for our instruction, leading to endurance and encouragement, Paul then writes in verse 5, “May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with each other, in accord with Jesus Christ”. Paul prays that God would grant this harmony to the church at Rome. If they would have what he’s calling them to, it must come from God.

Like we said, this selfless, gospel-driven, God-exalting, hope-abounding harmony doesn’t come naturally to us. It must come supernaturally to us, from God.

The result of God’s giving this to the church is, Paul writes in verse 6, “that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Note the unity here. It’s not just about Christians individually glorifying God with their own voices. It’s about doing it together with one voice, sometimes literally, but always figuratively.

We are meant to glorify God in harmony with one another. When we are not in harmony with one another, we disobey God and fail to glorify Him. But when we do live in Christlike harmony with one another, we do glorify Him.

So, if you would say that your main purpose in life is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever, you must be committed to harmony in your church. You cannot be content to be a lone ranger or a drama queen. Because we’re at war with our spiritual enemy, you need to fight for harmony. And if you do that, you will glorify God.

Paul goes on in verse 7, “Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.” Paul refers back to the idea of the stronger brother welcoming the weaker brother and the weaker brother welcoming the stronger brother, but that is merely an application of this broader calling.

In whatever situation, we are to welcome one another as Christ has welcomed us. This is to accept other Christians into community with yourself, even if you don’t fully agree on secondary issues.

Consider for a moment Christians in your church or other churches with whom you don’t have harmonious relationships. Maybe you had a sharp disagreement or a falling out.

Ask yourself, “Am I being selfless in this situation, as Christ was selfless for me? Can I be driven by the gospel to live in harmony with that brother/sister?”

So, we are called to selfless, gospel-driven, God-exalting harmony. We’ll see the fourth and final description of this harmony in our next bleat.

A call to selfless, gospel-driven, God-exalting, hope-abounding harmony (Pt. 2)

2. Gospel-driven

It’s one thing to know that we should be selfless. It’s another to be motivated to be selfless. This doesn’t come naturally to us. Naturally, apart from Christ, we are self-centered. We look out for number one and only number one.

God, through Paul, provides us the motivation that we need, and that is the gospel. Verse 3 says, “For Christ did not please Himself”. We are not to please ourselves, but instead our neighbor. The supreme example of this is Christ Himself.

If there’s anyone who has the right to forsake everyone else and focus on self, it’s God. Nobody deserves anything good from Him. Yet Christ did not please Himself. On the contrary, Paul writes in verse 3, but as it is written, “The reproaches of those who reproached you fell on me.”

Here, he’s quoting Psalm 69:9, which we now know was pointing forward to Jesus. The idea is that Jesus endured insult from people, while He was here to save us. It’s an example that He did not please Himself.

Paul quotes the Old Testament throughout this passage, because it’s what we need to be encouraged and endure. He writes in verse 4, “For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.” If we would have harmony, it will be because we have been instructed and encouraged by the word of God.

Later on in verses 8 and 9, having encouraged the church to welcome each other as Christ has welcomed them, Paul writes, “For I tell you that Christ became a servant to the circumcised to show God’s truthfulness, in order to confirm the promises given to the patriarchs, and in order that the Gentiles might glorify God for His mercy.”

When Paul says that Christ became a servant to the circumcised, what he’s talking about is the Jewish people. In His life and ministry, He was a servant to them. He says in Matthew 15:24, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” Of course, this doesn’t mean that non-Jews, Gentiles, are left out, as Paul is about to explain. But Christ, in being a servant to the Jewish people, fulfilled God’s promises to them.

In fact, Paul continues in verse 8, “to show God’s truthfulness, in order to confirm the promises given to the patriarchs.” What God promised in the Old Testament was fulfilled in Jesus Christ.

Not only did He become a servant to the circumcised to show God’s truthfulness, but He also did it, according to verse 9, “in order that the Gentiles might glorify God for His mercy”. As was part of God’s plan, the Jews would in large measure reject Jesus, and from there, He would offer grace to the rest of the world. (This points back to Paul’s explanation in Romans 11:11-12 about how the Jews’ sin led to salvation coming to the Gentiles.)

So, Christ’s coming to become a servant to the Jews led to non-Jews glorifying God for His mercy.

Paul continues to quote Scripture to encourage them. The second part of verse 9 says, “As it is written, ‘Therefore I will praise you among the Gentiles, and sing to your name.’” This closely resembles Psalm 18:49. The idea is that David was pointing forward to Jesus who would rejoice with Gentiles of God’s salvation.

He quotes several other passages in this same vein:

He continues in verse 10, quoting Deuteronomy 32:43, “Rejoice, O Gentiles, with His people.”

Then in verse 11, quoting Psalm 117:1, “Praise the Lord, all you Gentiles, and let the peoples extol Him.”

Then in verse 12, quoting Isaiah 11:10-12, “The root of Jesse will come, even He who arises to rule the Gentiles; in Him will the Gentiles hope.” The “root of Jesse” refers to a descendant of King David’s father, Jesse, who would rise and rule over both Israel and the Gentile nations. This was pointing forward to Israel’s Messiah, King Jesus.

So, Paul, over and over again, quotes the Scriptures for instruction, that through endurance and encouragement, they would have hope.

In this series, we’re saying that the harmony we’re called to must be gospel-driven, and the reason for that is that every verse Paul quotes here is the gospel.

He could have quoted verses that command humility, verses that command loving neighbor as oneself. But instead, he quotes verses that speak to God’s grace on them.

Christ, who is God, took on a human body and entered this fallen world. And here, He took the insults that were directed at His Father.

He was the suffering servant come to save sinners like us, both Jew and Gentile.

The main idea here is that since Christ did it for you, do it for others. The gospel is one of our main-motivators to do what we’re supposed to do.

It’s not easy to put others’ needs above our own. It’s not natural. But knowing that Christ did it for us first helps drive us to do it, by the power of the Holy Spirit.

What Paul quoted is merely a sampling of what the Old Testament says about the gospel. Now that we have the New Testament also, we have much more that we can quote to ourselves in order that we might be encouraged to do what we’re supposed to do.

For example John 3:16 tells us that Christ was given so that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. What Jesus has done for us should drive us to do the same for others.

Christ’s selflessness to the end that we would have a harmonious relationship with God, should drive us to selflessness, that we would have harmonious relationships with each other.

So, when we’re being selfish, the first thing we need to do is go back to the gospel, so that we won’t be like the servant in Jesus’ parable, shaking down the other servant for a few bucks after his master forgave him for the millions that he himself owed.

We are called to selfless, gospel-driven harmony. We’ll see the third description of this harmony in our next bleat.

A call to selfless, gospel-driven, God-exalting, hope-abounding harmony (Pt. 1)

In this series, we’ll be in Romans 15:1-13. Here, we will see a call to selfless, gospel-driven, God-exalting, hope-abounding harmony.

In music, there is a concept known as harmony. There’s probably much more to it then this, but in layman’s terms, it’s when two instruments or voices sound good together.

You have someone singing a note, and if someone sings, for example, the note two steps above it or two steps below it, it sounds good. They’re singing what is called “the harmony”.

If the person were to sing a note that is just one step away from the note of the melody, it clashes. It doesn’t sound good. The notes don’t work well together.

As Christians, we are called to a harmony. We are called to work well together. We are to, if you’ll allow the analogy, sound good to the listening ear.

It’s clear that the church universal is in disharmony. As the body of Christ on earth, we are not working together as one, and to the watching world, clash. There’s not much about that which we can control. But what we can work on together is harmony in our own local churches.

It’s not enough to just be told to be harmonious. If that were the case, passages like Romans 15:1-13 would not have had to have been written. We need to know what harmony looks like, and we need motivation to pursue such an endeavor.

That’s what God provides for us in this passage. He calls us to harmony, but it’s defined as selfless, and it’s motivated by the gospel and the glory of God and our eternal hope.

Let’s look at this call to selfless, gospel-driven, God-exalting, hope-abounding harmony, but first, let’s read the passage as a whole.

1 We who are strong have an obligation to bear with the failings of the weak, and not to please ourselves.

2 Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.

3 For Christ did not please himself, but as it is written, “The reproaches of those who reproached you fell on me.”

4 For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.

5 May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus,

6 that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

7 Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.

8 For I tell you that Christ became a servant to the circumcised to show God’s truthfulness, in order to confirm the promises given to the patriarchs,

9 and in order that the Gentiles might glorify God for his mercy. As it is written, “Therefore I will praise you among the Gentiles, and sing to your name.”

10 And again it is said, “Rejoice, O Gentiles, with his people.”

11 And again, “Praise the Lord, all you Gentiles, and let all the peoples extol him.”

12 And again Isaiah says, “The root of Jesse will come, even he who arises to rule the Gentiles; in him will the Gentiles hope.”

13 May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope. – Romans 15:1-13

First, let’s look at

1. Selfless

We see the harmony we’re called to described as selfless in verses 1 and 2.

In verse 1, he addresses, “We who are strong”. Paul lumps himself in with those who are strong. We remember from our last series that this is talking about those whose consciences were clear of any burdens not required by Jesus.

They knew they were free to eat whatever they wanted and to not observe Old Testament holidays. Paul was among their number. Together, they had an obligation.

He writes in verse 1, “We who are strong have an obligation to bear with the failings of the weak”. Note here that this is an obligation, not an option. It is not just something that would be nice for them to do–it was expected of them.

They were expected to bear with, be patient with the failings of the weak, that is those who felt they still needed to obey certain aspects of the Old Testament that Christ freed them from. The stronger brothers weren’t to quarrel with those weak in faith. They were to instead bear with their failings.

But there’s more. Paul continues in verse 1, “and not please ourselves.” That may mean giving up things that please us for the sake of others. This is not to say that we should do nothing that pleases ourselves. But pleasing ourselves should not be our first priority.

Higher than that priority, we read in verse 2, “Let each of us please his neighbor.” Interesting word choice, here. He doesn’t say, “brother”, but instead says “neighbor”. But the context is clearly talking about the relationship between believers.

The reason for this is likely that Paul is alluding to the second greatest commandment: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39). Christ said that the greatest commandment is to love God with our everything and that the second is to love our neighbors. This is how important this is.

Rather than pleasing ourselves, we are to please our neighbors. Paul also writes in Philippians 2:4, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” The Christian is not to be self-centered, but Christ-centered, and others-focused. Harmony is accomplished through selflessness.

Think about it. If everyone in our church was focused on pleasing each other, what would be the end result? Everyone would be taken care of. We would have harmony with each other.

Now, this isn’t merely about making each other happy. It’s about doing what is good for each other. Verse 2 continues, “for his good, to build him up”. The goal is building someone up in Christ.

What are some things that we can do to build someone up? Use the gifts that we’ve been given. Sacrifice our rights for them. Speak the truth in love.

At what cost do some of these things come? Comfort. Vulnerability. Money. Things we have the right to do, but won’t do.

But if we will have harmony, it will require a selflessness from everyone. As soon as someone is selfish, it creates disharmony, disunity, and it renders us less effective to accomplish our common mission.

So, we are called to a selfless harmony. The second description of this harmony we’ll see in our next bleat.

Let God be the Judge in matters of conscience: God as our example and motivation

To see this, we simply go to a small phrase at the end of Romans 14:3, “for God has welcomed him”. Here’s why you are to welcome he who doesn’t see eye-to-eye with you in matters of conscience: God has welcomed him.

If God has welcomed him, we shouldn’t disagree with God. We should follow His example. Despite the brother’s weakness, God has called him His own. We should receive the brother with the same openness as God has. Not only is that true for the brother, but it’s also true for you.

Well, it may be true for you. If you have not turned to Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of sins, that means that you are not right with Him. It means that you are still under His wrath, because you have wronged Him all your life. But if you turn from your sins and trust in Jesus to save you, He will.

Believer, with all of your sin, with all of your deficiencies, God gave His only Son to die on the cross for you. He has welcomed you. Go beyond the golden rule: Don’t only treat others as you would have them treat you. Treat others as Christ has treated you.

So, we are to let God be the Judge in matters of conscience. In this series, we saw that forbearance is the foundation for that. We reviewed examples of matters of conscience. We talked about the proper response to these situations. And we looked to God as our supreme example and motivation.

Ask yourself, “How does this study apply to me?”

Let God be the Judge in matters of conscience: Examples

In Romans 14, having encouraged the Christian to welcome those weak in faith and not quarrel with them, Paul gives examples of these types of issues.

In verse 2, he writes, “One person believes he may eat anything, while the weak person eats only vegetables.”

So, again, the one who understands that food laws were pointing forward to Jesus but are no longer in effect are the strong ones here, and the ones who are hanging on to the food laws are weak in faith.

In verse 5, he gives another example: “One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike.”

This is, at least, talking about the new moons and festivals that were established in the law of Moses, all of which were pointing forward to and fulfilled in Jesus. This may be referring to the Sabbath, as well, but that’s debatable.

In both of these examples, they were no longer required to continue what they used to do, but their conscience prevented them from stopping.

There are modern examples of this, too. Some examples may be giving exactly 10% of one’s income, standing during singing, having a Bible reading plan, bowing heads or closing eyes to pray.

One of the most common ones is dressing up for church. The Bible doesn’t command wearing anything different from what you normally wear when you’re assembling with the saints. If anything, it cautions against drawing attention to yourself with fanciness and instead promotes beautifying yourself on the inside.

But there are many who feel they would be being disrespectful if they don’t dress nicely for church. The thinking may be that they dress up for other people to honor them, so why wouldn’t they do the same thing for God? There are answers to that question. But Paul’s prescription here is to hold out a hand of fellowship and unity and not quarrel with them.

So, Paul gives some examples of matters of conscience, and we’ve observed some modern examples. We want to be clear that as long as it’s done for the right reasons, it’s not wrong to do these extra things. It may be burdensome on a person, because they’re adding requirements on themselves that Christ does not. But as long as they don’t think it saves them or earns them more favor with God, they are free to do them.

Now that we’ve seen examples of matters of conscience, in our next bleat, we’ll see the proper response to these matters.

Let God be the Judge in matters of conscience: Forbearance as the foundation

At the beginning of Romans 14, Paul has just been talking about how the law is fulfilled through love. This concept of letting God be the judge in matters of conscience is an expression of love, thus fulfilling the law.

So, Paul writes in verse 1,

As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him.

It’s interesting here that in a situation where one person is being more strict on himself and the other person is putting less burden on himself, the stricter one is considered the one who is weak in faith. We’ll see that in the next verse.

We should ask what it means that the person is weak in faith. The issue is that these believers, coming out of the Old Covenant, which forbade eating certain foods and made certain days special, had difficulty removing the yoke of the law.

Despite the fact that Jesus made all foods clean and fulfilled all the feasts and ceremonies, they couldn’t let go of what they’ve done and known their whole lives.

Think back to Peter. In Acts 10, when Peter had a vision and heard a voice telling him to eat foods that were considered unclean, what was his response? He said in Acts 10:14, “By no means, Lord; for I have never eaten anything that is common or unclean.”

So, despite this being a vision from God and God telling him to do something, he says, “No, I’ve never done that.”

Peter’s faith here was weak. He didn’t trust what he was told about his freedom to do what was previously forbidden. (This was about more than food, by the way. It was about the gospel going out to Gentiles, non-Jews.)

So, those who put burdens on themselves which Christ does not require are those “weak in faith”. The one who is stronger, who knows he is free to do certain things and not others, is to “welcome him”. Other translations say, “accept”, “receive”, “offer a hand”, “bear with”.

What he’s saying is, “Don’t push them away. Take them in, despite their disagreeing with you on this.”

And he quickly makes a clarification here. Verse 1, “but not to quarrel over opinions.” In other words, “Don’t just welcome them in to try to convince them of your position. Yes, you’re right, but you don’t need to try to win the argument here.”

The reason why they don’t need to correct them is that they’re not saying that abstaining from certain foods or keeping certain days as special contributes to their salvation. They do those things, we’ll see in a little while, because if they didn’t do them, it would feel like they were dishonoring the Lord.

The word that’s not said outright in this verse but is strongly implied is “forbearance”. The stronger brother is not to quarrel with the one “who is weak in faith”. He is to forbear with him and welcome him. Elsewhere, Paul writes that love bears all things and endures all things.

Forbearance is the foundation for letting God be the Judge in matters of conscience. Yes, stronger brother, technically, you are right. But don’t make this a dividing point between siblings. Love. Welcome. Forbear.

Before we move on, it would be good for us to discuss what kinds of things this is not talking about. There are certain things that we must correct. There are certain issues that we must die on hill for, so to speak. There are issues which we cannot ignore and must address. But there are matters of conscience that we need not quarrel over, and they call for forbearance.

We’ll see some examples in the next bleat.